Alex Sloan

Alex Sloan (he/him) is a San Francisco–based kinkster, facilitator, and longtime explorer of pleasure, power, and embodiment. For over 25 years, Alex has been deep in kink—as a bator, fister, and curious student of sensation – not just to learn the how, but to explore the why: why kink opens us, why pleasure tells the truth, and why the body remembers what the mind can’t. Alex’s work lives where kink meets meaning. Alex is drawn to the edges – control and surrender, shame and release, intimacy and autonomy – and uses intentional touch, ethical polyamory, and embodied practices to help queer men drop performance and come home to themselves. Outside the play space, Alex has spent decades building leadership programs and transformational learning experiences in the world of philanthropy and social impact. Alex splits time between San Francisco and Costa Rica, and feels most alive in spaces where honesty is hot, sensation is sacred, and pleasure gets to lead.