Unleash: Conscious Kink - TEST Pre-registration
With Alex Sloan and JoJo Bear
December 14 - 20, 2025
High-Level Program Overview
A 7-day erotic immersion for queer men ready to explore their deepest desires with curiosity, courage, and consent. Through kink-informed practices, ritual touch, and embodied spirituality, you’ll discover pleasure not as a guilty indulgence, but as a sacred force for healing, connection, and liberation. Every moment is fully opt-in, grounded in safety, and designed to honor your erotic self without shame.
This is a space to explore sensual massage, solo and partnered self-pleasure, BDSM techniques, and sacred erotic rituals-not as performance, but as authentic expressions of your body’s intelligence and joy, and as transformational tools to connect to your higher self and beyond.
Who It’s For & Why People Come
This retreat is for you if you’re ready to…
- Explore erotic embodiment and conscious kink in a fully supportive space.
- Follow your erotic edge at your own pace, in full consent.
- Feel comfortable in a sexual environment where others are exploring their kinks-without any obligation for you to participate or even remain in the space.
- Integrate pleasure as a spiritual practice and a tool for liberation.
- Expand your skills in power exchange (role play), shared solosex/masturbation, and BDSM techniques, including (but not limited to) impact play/flogging, ass pleasure / fisting.
- Move past shame and step fully into erotic joy.
- Connect deeply with other emotionally grounded men exploring similar edges.
What to Expect
The Experience: The jungle hums as night falls, warm air clinging to my skin. In the glow of candles, I step into the pavilion, heart racing-tonight, I’m exploring something new. Our facilitator’s voice grounds me, reminding us of consent, safety, and choice. My breath slows. A rope slides around my wrists, its texture sparking curiosity.
The first stroke of the flogger lands-gentle, more sound than sting-and my body relaxes into the rhythm. Each breath draws me deeper into sensation, somewhere between alert and surrendered. I’m surrounded by others in their own pleasure journeys, held in a space where our curiosity feels celebrated. Tonight, I’m not just trying something new. I’m finding a part of myself I didn’t know was waiting. Tonight, I’m dissolving the walls within me and reveling in the fierce beauty of my body, the ecstatic truth of my sex, and the unshakable radiance of my power.
Program Highlights:
- Facilitated discussions on erotic liberation, kink for emotional healing, the interplay of pleasure and personal spirituality, and queer relationship models including polyamory, ethical non-monogamy, and power exchanges.
- Advanced massage and conscious touch skills for sensual and erotic contexts
- Tantric breathwork, naked partner yoga, and embodied movement for arousal and presence
- Guided edging, solo and partnered masturbation, and ass pleasure/fisting with expert instruction
- BDSM-informed techniques including bondage, impact play, and power exchange
- Sacred erotic rituals blending playfulness with spiritual depth
- Clothing optional environment for experiencing the sensory delight of the body in nature
- Nature-based embodiment: naked walks, erotic waterfall excursions, and outdoor movement practices
- Comprehensive preparation with pre-readings, consent tools, and post-retreat integration support
Schedule Overview
Mornings begin with movement and breathwork to awaken the body, followed by group conversations, demonstrations, and practice on the day’s theme. Late mornings and afternoons dive into hands-on workshops, skill-building exercises, and partner or group practice in a consent-rich container.
Evenings slow into ritual-sometimes sensual, sometimes playful, always grounded in safety. There’s time for integration, nature immersion, and private reflection alongside optional erotic exploration. The pace is immersive but spacious, allowing your body to connect, rest, play, and expand.
Investment & Logistics
- Duration: 7 days, 6 nights
- Group Size: Maximum 25 for depth and safety
- Prerequisites: Comfort with advanced erotic content and group intimacy
- Includes: All workshops, expert facilitation, accommodation, delicious chef-prepared meals, tropical beverages, airport transportation, preparation and integration resources, and online Qasa community access
- Investment: Starts at $2,700 (see program guide for full pricing)
- Spice Level: 🌶️🌶️🌶️ High-clothing-optional, explicit erotic content, small-group practice, all consent-driven and optional
About the Facilitators

Alex Sloan
Alex is a San Francisco-based bator, fister, and overall kinkster. He is an active learner, practitioner, and mentor around ethical polyamory, tantric techniques, intentional touch, and queer men’s sexual wellness. Alex has demonstrated a lifelong commitment to advancing leadership skills and transformational educational opportunities for adults and young people. He relishes time with his three […]
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JoJo Bear
JoJo Bear is a Sacred Intimate, Somatic guide and educator based in the San Francisco Bay Area. Through somatic coaching, language, and embodiment practices, he empowers individuals to transition from their 'heads' to their bodies, fostering a deeper connection with themselves. Dedicated to cultivating a safe space, JoJo welcomes male-identified individuals (cis, trans), as well […]
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